A Valentine’s Day Story – The Many Ways to Die

Years ago I heard a Valentine’s Day story that I thought was so funny I never forgot it. Part of it was the way it was told—with comedic timing, goofy faces, sound effects, and European accents. The performance should have won an award! The teller of the tale is your average guy trying to impress [...]

Debunking and Deboarding da Twitter Twain – A 2012 New Year’s Resolution

 [Part 1 of a 2-part series on my love-hate relationship with Twitter]  Twitter was the topic on NPR’s Here and Now show last week. Host Robin Young said “Twitter changed the world in 2011.” She was referring to the Arab Spring uprisings (how the use of Twitter helped topple tyrannical governments) and Occupy Wall Street [...]

An Untraditional Thanksgiving Day Tradition

During the past several years I’ve implemented a Thanksgiving Day tradition that is so simple yet rewarding I wish I had done it years earlier. It’s called “Hiding Out”—a no-fuss/no-muss way to celebrate any holiday Here’s how it works: * You don’t go anywhere. * You don’t have company over. Hiding Out has many advantages, [...]

Native American History – A Valuable Lesson for Americans Today

The Oglala Lakota of the Great Sioux Nation are some of my favorite folks. I totally get them. I bet they would get me, too. For y’all that don’t know the history of Native Americans vs. the “white man”/federal government, Native Americans basically were annihilated/way of life decimated. If they didn’t succumb to diseases that [...]

Execution and Death – Government vs. God

 The sad and unjust story of Mr. Troy Davis is a sad commentary about an unjust America. It reeks of racism, a lust for blood, and a corrupt justice system. This story threw me for a loop—as the execution of an innocent person is as repugnant as it gets for me. Mr. Davis was convicted [...]

Save a Tree – Use a Hankie – Not a Kleenex

According to the United Nations Food and Agricultural Organization, between 3 and 6 billion trees worldwide are cut down per year—for fuel, lumber, and paper products. This rate is not sustainable. Also not sustainable is a person’s high-tech lifestyle without countering it with high-touch components—such as interaction with real-live people, nature, and/or spirituality. We need [...]

“Ode to Baseball” – A San Francisco Giants Fan’s Lamentation

To the tune of legendary crooner Mr. Tony Bennett’s theme song: “I left my heart in San Francisco Bruised, bloodied, and broken, Not on a cable car going half-way to a star, But in the AT&T lot with a *$30 parking token.” I hope that’s NOT my theme song for Baseball Season 2011. But it [...]

Advice from Old Gals — about soup, happiness, and gay rights

When I was growing up I obtained advice from “older” women: Ann Landers, Dr. Joyce Brothers, and Amy Vanderbilt. From Ms. Landers I learned that it is OK not to answer nosey questions. She advised that if someone asks you an overly personal question, your answer should be: “Why do you ask?” That’s a great [...]

What Do You Do with 6,000 Pounds of Garlic? Have a Festival!

This week-end is the 33rd annual Gilroy Garlic Festival. The fragrant town of Gilroy is located 30 miles south of San Jose, California. At the end of July, 100,000 garlic lovers descend there and savor various forms of tons of garlic-infused food.   I drive through Gilroy on my way to work. You can smell [...]

The Power of Perseverance – To Sink or Swim

Diana Nyad, the ultra long-distance swimming champion will soon test the outer limits of perseverance—in an amazing physical and mental feat. She is planning an ocean swim: Cuba to Florida. That’s 103 miles! Are you kidding me? How long will it take? About 60 hours. That’s 2 ½ days! Are you kidding me? Diana is [...]